Valiant Child

A mother feels between her breaths where time stops between heart beats and memory works like muscle Here at the edge of intention where childhood ends and memory of the final nursing is lost though she swore she’d never forget He artfully negotiates the room like John Wick She amuses herself with thoughts of what … Continue reading Valiant Child

Authentic Story of a Single Mom in the System

This can be incremental, as with domestic violence* to the point that suddenly the veil is stripped away and the reality of the fight or flight conundrum becomes vivid, an explosion of truth. This hot mess can turn a life inside out very quickly, and so many live life without the self-awareness to recognize the lava that flows around them.

Convergent Paradigms

This statement by Georgio is loaded in every aspect, like a pregnant spider, inadvertently waiting for someone to come along and smash it, with the little spiders running all over in every direction at once. I am really interested to see if anyone can objectively walk this statement back, and preferably someone who does not inherently exhibit participation in the divisive narrative that philosophically wrought the incident. Can any of us be this someone? 

Doing School at Home: Indoctrination vs. Transformation into Authentic Learning

What happens to a deep sea diver when surfacing without decompression? For those leaving school to homeschool, this is called deschooling (deprogramming) and can take months to a year. Without it, kids and entire families are experiencing the bends.

Are Schools the Problem, and Are We Bound to the 19th Century?

Parents restrict their kids’ natural urges to practice the functional skills of this age. I believe they do so out of fear projection, no matter how well-intended. This limiting, prohibiting, judging, restricting, and dismissing of media and other forms of visual, audio, and meme culture (including gaming) breeds a certain and noticeable level of social and functional ignorance.

High School Graduation During Covid19: Examining the Structure of the Conventional Paradigm

I can imagine how stressful it must be for system-based children and young adults during this time. I imagine the fear of feeling thrust off one's track, not knowing how to realign and move forward within the chaos.

Whole Life Learners don't have their lives so compartmentalized. We live more in the present tense. It doesn't feel like the world is closing in on us or we are running out of time. Opportunities aren't hit or miss. Rather, they are never-ending and spiraling out all the time.

Let Go to Level Up

Taking responsibility for the common denominator means self-regulating back to center when we sail too far off to one side. Individuals who have survived and even thrived outside of the myriad forms of abuse and trauma learn that it doesn't matter what you believe. It only matters where you show up and what you do when you get there. Courage comes from traversing the parts of your soul you can't discern and the parts of the tunnel you can't see through. Maybe we should start sharing our judgements as the fears they really are.

But it has less to do with babies being born or bootstraps being pulled up. It has little to do with rainbow flags. Netflix and Amazon already evidenced in chummy, comic exchange that society is indeed in favor of the individual. Society has already embraced 1984, but the Apple commercial makes it seem more bent towards discovery and creation. We might all end up in one big space-cruise-ship (like the one in The Fifth Element). It has less to do with universal income or health care or guns. It isn't about coal or renewable energy or climate. It isn't based on taxes or benefits. It isn't about religious belief. It isn't about white-haired old men. None of us should be surprised by our societal makeup. Even Mulder and Scully predicted this pandemic (X Files, Season 11, Episode 5).

This time, it comes down to unity. My motivation comes from seeing humans self-illuminate as we practice social isolation and conduct grids in support of one another across the entire world. We are leveling up as a species. So, let us honor our differences with respect for the higher process as we continue tunneling through the Twilight Zone of 2020.

Faeries and Flowers

I’m pleased to see my nurse has on pretty purple scrubs with flowers in the front. I have worn bright red. A red button front silky shirt and my favorite pair of red earrings. The earrings are like bell-shaped flowers with little black beads hanging from the center. I think of them as faerie flowers and, in fact, I purchased them from a website dedicated to faeries. They make me smile. I need them today.